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In a cluster of quiet mountain villages in Sardinia, Italy, something unusual is happening. A remarkable number of people are living into their hundreds. And in this global hotspot for longevity, there are nearly as many male as female centenarians. Susan Pinker takes us to the Blue Zone of Sardinia as she searches for the answers to - Why?
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Genius Born of Anguish, Part 3

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"The greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity or power, but self-rejection," said Henri Nouwen, Catholic priest, teacher and gay celibate. He has been called a psychologist of the soul.  Born in Holland in 1932, Nouwen wrote thirty-nine books about spirituality. He was interested in the relationship between religion and psychology and studied at the Menninger Clinic, one of the world's leading psychiatric hospitals. He taught at Notre Dame, Yale and Harvard. Concerned about people whom society had rejected, Nouwen spent the last ten years of his life working with people with intellectual disabilities at the Daybreak L'Arche community north of Toronto. A profile by Michael Higgins based on Nouwen's writings, interviews with those who knew him, and archival recordings of Nouwen himself.
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Affirmations for Prosperity

by  Florence Scovel Shinn

I now draw from the abundance of the spheres my immediate and endless supply. All Channels are free! All Doors are open!

I now release the gold-mine within me. I am linked with an endless golden stream of prosperity which comes to me under grace in perfect ways.

Goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life and I shall dwell in the house of abundance forever.

My God is a God of plenty and I now receive all that I desire or require, and more.

All that is mine by Divine Right is now released and reaches me in great avalanches of abundance, under grace in miraculous ways.

My supply is endless, inexhaustible and immediate and comes to me under grace in perfect ways.

All channels are free and all doors fly open for my immediate and endless, Divinely Designed supply.

I give thanks that the millions which are mine by Divine Right, now pour in and pile up under grace in perfect ways.

Unexpected doors fly open, unexpected channels are free, and endless avalanches of abundance are poured out upon me, under grace in perfect ways.

I spend money under direct inspiration wisely and fearlessly, knowing my supply is endless and immediate.

I am fearless in letting money go out, knowing God is my immediate and endless supply.

My ships come in over a calm sea, under grace in perfect ways.

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BRAD MELTZER
Brad Meltzer is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Inner Circle and seven other bestselling thrillers. He is also the author of the non-fiction best seller, Heroes For My Son; the host of the History Channel TV series, Brad Meltzer's Decoded; and is the #1 selling author of the comic book Justice League of America, for which he won the prestigious Eisner Award. In addition, he is the co-founder of City Year Miami.




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TED-Ed | Write your story, change history - Brad Meltzer

Published on Jan 16, 2013

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The idea that youth is wasted on the young? Wrong. Martin Luther King, Jr. and the creators of Superman were all under 30 when they wrote themselves into history. 

In this inspirational TEDYouth 2011 Talk, Brad Meltzer encourages us to dream big, work hard, and stay humble.

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Man is born to live, not to prepare for life.

Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom.
 
-- Theodore Isaac

 

Life is indeed difficult, partly because of the real difficulties we must overcome in order to survive, and partly because of our own innate desire to always do better, to overcome new challenges, to self-actualize. 

Happiness is experienced largely in striving towards a goal, not in having attained things, because our nature is always to want to go on to the next endeavor. 
 
-- Albert Ellis

You're alive. Do something. The directive in life, the moral imperative was so uncomplicated. It could be expressed in single words, not complete sentences. It sounded like this: Look. Listen. Choose. Act. 
 
-- Barbara Hall, A Summons to New Orleans, 2000 

The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. 
 
-- Ben Stein

Man is born to live, not to prepare for life. 
 
-- Boris Pasternak (1890 - 1960), Doctor Zhivago, 1958 

Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious. 
 
-- Brendan Gill

 Life is a foreign language; all men mispronounce it. 
 
-- Christopher Morley (1890 - 1957) 

Life is full of surprises and and serendipity. Being open to unexpected turns in the road is an important part of success. If you try to plan every step, you may miss those wonderful twists and turns. Just find your next adventure-do it well, enjoy it-and then, not now, think about what comes next. 
 
-- Condoleeza Rice 

In matters of self-control as we shall see again and again, speed kills. But a little friction really can save lives. 
 
-- Daniel Akst, We Have Met the Enemy: Self-Control in an Age of Excess, 2011

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Quotes

 

The work will teach you how to do it.
- Estonian proverb





 We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful what we pretend to be.
- Kurt Vonnegut

You can only feel good about what you're not doing when you know what you're not doing.    - David Allen

 We are all viewing ourselves in the fun house mirror.
- John Ortberg



 In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus


 Life is not having been told that the man has just waxed the floor.
- Ogden Nash

 

 Tanmay Vora has written 12 lessons on life and leadership from photography. An excerpt:

Someone said, “To photograph a bird, you need to be a part of the silence.” Photography teaches me to remain silent and immerse myself in the current moment. Only then, the magnificent reveals itself.

 Will 23rd-century historians look back on today's fiscal follies with the same mixture of bemusement and disdain with which we now view the financial affairs of 18th-century French kings?   -- - Kenneth Rogoff






 Wisdom is the ability to see the long-run consequences of current actions, the willingness to sacrifice short-run gains for larger long-run benefits, and the ability to control what is controllable and not to fret over what is not. Therefore the essence of wisdom is concern with the future. It is not the type of concern with the future that the fortune teller has; he only tries to predict it. The wise man tries to control it.

- From A Concept of Corporate Planning by Russell L. Ackoff


 Our dream was simple: send IBM back to the typewriter business holding its Selectric typewriter balls. We were members of the Macintosh Division of Apple Computer. This means we were the handpicked soldiers of Steve Jobs, cofounder of Apple Computer.
- From How to Drive Your Competition Crazy: Creating Disruption for Fun and Profit by Guy Kawasaki

Serial Multitaskers

 Prof David Sanbonmatsu, who co-wrote the paper published in the Public Library of Science Journal, said: "What is alarming is that people who talk on cell phones while driving tend to be the people least able to multitask well."

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Peter Bregman - Find Your Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done.

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Find Your Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done.



“18 Minutes is an intensely smart, insanely readable, and eminently practical guide to boosting our effectiveness and deepening our satisfaction. I’ve already benefited from the ideas in this book in my own work. So will you.”
-- Dan Pink, author of Drive

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• Named the best business book of the year on NPR
• Selected by Publisher’s Weekly and the New York Post as a top 10 business book of the year
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Fishing for a fortune: Chinese porcelain fish bowls found in Essex barn are set to sell for thousands | Mail Online

 
It is a find that would have bargain hunters swooning with envy.
After being smothered in dust and forgotten in an old barn, this pair of beautiful bowls were discovered by an eagle-eyed expert looking around a house.
The giant Chinese porcelain fish bowls had been ignored for so long that they were discovered languishing in dust and containing a mummified mouse.
The matching yellow pair were made in the 19th or early 20th century for the last dowager empress of China, Cixi, to keep her goldfish in. 

What a find! This giant pair of Chinese porcelain fish bowls, that were made in the 19th or early 20th century for the last dowager empress of China, Cixi, are now to be sold at auction

They are now to be sold at auction and have been given a conservative estimate of £10,000, but are likely to sell for much more.
They come with their original, decorative hardwood stands and were spotted by an expert doing a routine valuation at a house near Colchester, Essex.

 

The bowls are decorated with peony blossoms and would have be used to keep fish in, possibly at an imperial palace.
They measure 18 by 21 inches and are stamped with the iron-red Dayazhai character mark enclosed within an oval medallion with a dragon border.
James Grinter, from Reeman Dansie’s auction house in Colchester, was the expert who spotted the bowls.
He said: 'I was on a routine valuation and these bowls were in a barn and had clearly been there for many years and were covered in dust.
'In one on them was a dead mouse and it had been there for so long that it had mummified.
'It had obviously fallen in and couldn’t get out again. The bowls were originally used to keep goldfish in.
'They have the mark of the last dowager empress of China, but we can’t say if they were used by her or came from an imperial palace - we’ll let the market decide that.
'They are large bowls and one of them has been restored a long time ago, which is one of the reasons why the estimate is quite low.
'But they come with their Chinese hardwood stands and are striking pieces.'

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A bright cherry blossom and white crane decorative design, providing a distinctive oriental accent to any home or office. An elegant display for house plants, cut flowers, or lucky bamboo. Note that the 12 inch diameter is measured from the outside of the rim of the opening; the diameter of the opening and of the bottom are smaller.

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Motivational quotes

You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.
C. S. Lewis


Nothing in the world can take the persistence.
Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent.  Genius will not: unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.  Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.  Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.  The slogan "press on" has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.

- Calvin Coolidge 



I fell.  I got up.  I fell again.  I got up again.  Even when I fell on my face, I was still falling forward.
- Catherine Ann



Persistence is the fifth and final pillar of self-discipline. - anon.



Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success.
Napoleon Hill


 

 Persistence is to the character of man as carbon is to steel.
Napoleon Hill


 

 Energy and persistence conquer all things. Benjamin Franklin

 Permanence, perseverance and persistence in spite of all obstacle s, discouragement s, and impossibilities: It is this, that in all things distinguishes the strong soul from the weak. Thomas Carlyle

 Knowing trees, I understand the meaning of patience. Knowing grass, I can appreciate persistence. Hal Borland

 Ambition is the path to success, persistence is the vehicle you arrive in. William Eardley IV

 Never let your persistence and passion turn into stubbornness and ignorance. Anthony J. D'Angelo

 The most essential factor is persistence - the determination never to allow your energy or enthusiasm to be dampened by the discouragement that must inevitably come. James Whitcomb Riley

 Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.
Dale Carnegie

 

 As long as we are persistence in our pursuit of our deepest destiny, we will continue to grow. We cannot choose the day or time when we will fully bloom. It happens in its own time.  
Denis Waitley

 Success is almost totally dependent upon drive and persistence. The extra energy required to make another effort or try another approach is the secret of winning.  
Denis Waitley


 

 Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty, and persistence.  
Colin Powell

 The majority of men meet with failure because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans to take the place of those which fail.  
Napoleon Hill

 Continuous, unflagging effort, persistence and determination will win. Let not the man be discouraged who has these. 
  James Whitcomb Riley
 

 As for goals, I don't set myself those anymore. I'm not one of these 'I must have achieved this and that by next year' kind of writers. I take things as they come and find that patience and persistence tend to win out in the end. 
  Paul Kane
 

 Failure is only postponed success as long as courage 'coaches' ambition. The habit of persistence is the habit of victory. Herbert Kaufman

 Ambition is the path to success. Persistence is the vehicle you arrive in. 
  Bill Bradley

 Paralyze resistance with persistence. Woody Hayes

 

 Survival, in the cool economics of biology, means simply the persistence of one's own genes in the generations to follow. Lewis Thomas

 My greatest point is my persistence. I never give up in a match. However down I am, I fight until the last ball. My list of matches shows that I have turned a great many so-called irretrievable defeats into victories. 

  Bjorn Borg

 

 If you're going through hell, keep going.  -- Winston Churchill

 

 

With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts. Eleanor Roosevelt

 Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.  
-- Thomas A. Edison

 

Nine things successful people do differently

Why have you been so successful in reaching some of your goals, but not others? 

If you aren't sure, you are far from alone in your confusion. It turns out that even brilliant, highly accomplished people are pretty lousy when it comes to understanding why they succeed or fail. 

The intuitive answer — that you are born predisposed to certain talents and lacking in others — is really just one small piece of the puzzle. 

In fact, decades of research on achievement suggests that:
successful people reach their goals not simply because of who they are, but more often because of what they do.

Nine Things Successful People Do Differently:

 
1. Get specific. When you set yourself a goal, try to be as specific as possible.

"Lose 5 pounds" is a better goal than "lose some weight," because it gives you a clear idea of what success looks like.

Knowing exactly what you want to achieve keeps you motivated until you get there. 

Also, think about the specific actions that need to be taken to reach your goal. 

Just promising you'll "eat less" or "sleep more" is too vague — be clear and precise. "I'll be in bed by 10pm on weeknights" leaves no room for doubt about what you need to do, and whether or not you've actually done it.


2. Seize the moment to act on your goals. Given how busy most of us are, and how many goals we are juggling at once, it's not surprising that we routinely miss opportunities to act on a goal because we simply fail to notice them. 

Did you really have no time to work out today? No chance at any point to return that phone call? Achieving your goal means grabbing hold of these opportunities before they slip through your fingers.

To seize the moment, decide when and where you will take each action you want to take, in advance. 

Again, be as specific as possible (e.g., "If it's Monday, Wednesday, or Friday, I'll work out for 30 minutes before work.") Studies show that this kind of planning will help your brain to detect and seize the opportunity when it arises, increasing your chances of success by roughly 300%.


3. Know exactly how far you have left to go. Achieving any goal also requires honest and regular monitoring of your progress — if not by others, then by you yourself. 

If you don't know how well you are doing, you can't adjust your behavior or your strategies accordingly.  

Check your progress frequently — weekly, or even daily, depending on the goal.



4. Be a realistic optimist. When you are setting a goal, by all means engage in lots of positive thinking about how likely you are to achieve it.  Believing in your ability to succeed is enormously helpful for creating and sustaining your motivation. 

But whatever you do, 

don't underestimate how difficult it will be to reach your goal. 

Most goals worth achieving require time, planning, effort, and persistence. 

Studies show that thinking things will come to you easily and effortlessly leaves you ill-prepared for the journey ahead, and significantly increases the odds of failure.

5. Focus on getting better, rather than being good. Believing you have the ability to reach your goals is important, but so is believing you can get the ability. 

Many of us believe that our intelligence, our personality, and our physical aptitudes are fixed — that no matter what we do, we won't improve. As a result, we focus on goals that are all about proving ourselves, rather than developing and acquiring new skills.
Fortunately, decades of research suggest that the belief in fixed ability is completely wrong — abilities of all kinds are profoundly malleable. 

Embracing the fact that you can change will allow you to make better choices, and reach your fullest potential. 

People whose goals are about getting better, rather than being good, take difficulty in stride, and appreciate the journey as much as the destination.

6. Have grit. Grit is a willingness to commit to long-term goals, and to persist in the face of difficulty. Studies show that gritty people obtain more education in their lifetime, and earn higher college GPAs. Grit predicts which cadets will stick out their first grueling year at West Point.  In fact, grit even predicts which round contestants will make it to at the Scripps National Spelling Bee.

The good news is, if you aren't particularly gritty now, there is something you can do about it.

People who lack grit more often than not believe that they just don't have the innate abilities successful people have. If that describes your own thinking .... well, there's no way to put this nicely: you are wrong. 

As I mentioned earlier, effort, planning, persistence, and good strategies are what it really takes to succeed. 

Embracing this knowledge will not only help you see yourself and your goals more accurately, but also do wonders for your grit.


7. Build your willpower muscle. Your self-control "muscle" is just like the other muscles in your body — when it doesn't get much exercise, it becomes weaker over time. But when you give it regular workouts by putting it to good use, it will grow stronger and stronger, and better able to help you successfully reach your goals.

To build willpower, take on a challenge that requires you to do something you'd honestly rather not do. 

Give up high-fat snacks, do 100 sit-ups a day, stand up straight when you catch yourself slouching, try to learn a new skill. 

When you find yourself wanting to give in, give up, or just not bother — don't. 

Start with just one activity, and make a plan for how you will deal with troubles when they occur ("If I have a craving for a snack, I will eat one piece of fresh or three pieces of dried fruit.") It will be hard in the beginning, but it will get easier, and that's the whole point. 

As your strength grows, you can take on more challenges and step-up your self-control workout.


8. Don't tempt fate. No matter how strong your willpower muscle becomes, it's important to always respect the fact that it is limited, and if you overtax it you will temporarily run out of steam. 

Don't try to take on two challenging tasks at once, if you can help it (like quitting smoking and dieting at the same time).

And don't put yourself in harm's way — many people are overly-confident in their ability to resist temptation, and as a result they put themselves in situations where temptations abound.


Successful people know not to make reaching a goal harder than it already is.


9. Focus on what you will do, not what you won't do. 


Do you want to successfully lose weight, quit smoking, or put a lid on your bad temper? 

Then plan how you will replace bad habits with good ones, rather than focusing only on the bad habits themselves. 

Research on thought suppression (e.g., "Don't think about white bears!") has shown that trying to avoid a thought makes it even more active in your mind. The same holds true when it comes to behavior — by trying not to engage in a bad habit, our habits get strengthened rather than broken.

If you want to change your ways, ask yourself, What will I do instead? 

For example, if you are trying to gain control of your temper and stop flying off the handle, you might make a plan like "If I am starting to feel angry, then I will take three deep breaths to calm down." By using deep breathing as a replacement for giving in to your anger, your bad habit will get worn away over time until it disappears completely.

 

Remember, you don't need to become a different person to become a more successful one. 

It's never what you are, but what you do.


 




Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. is a motivational psychologist, and author of the new book Succeed: How We Can Reach Our Goals (Hudson Street Press, 2011). 

She is also an expert blogger on motivation and leadership for Fast Company and Psychology Today.

Her personal blog, The Science of Success, can be found at www.heidigranthalvorson.com.

Follow her on Twitter @hghalvorson

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Twelve Steps to Happiness

STEP 1 - Show gratitude 

(* There's a lot more to gratitude than saying "thank you." Emerging research shows that people who are consistently grateful are happier, more energetic and hopeful, more forgiving and less materialistic. Gratitude needs to be practised daily because it doesn't necessarily come naturally.)


STEP 2 - Cultivate Optimism


STEP 3 - Avoid overthinking and social comparison

(* Many of us believe that when we feel down we should try to focus inwardly to attain self-insight and find solutions to our problems. But numerous studies have shown that overthinking sustains or worsens sadness.)


STEP 4 - Practice kindness


STEP 5 - Nurture social relationships


STEP 6 - Develop coping skills


STEP 7 - Learn to forgive 

(* Forgiveness is not the same thing as reconciliation, pardoning or condoning. Nor is it a denial of your own hurt. Forgiveness is a shift in thinking and something that you do for yourself and not for the person who has harmed you. Research confirms that clinging to bitterness or hate harms you more than the object of your hatred. Forgiving people are less likely to be hostile, depressed, anxious or neurotic.


* Forgive yourself for past wrongs. Recognising that you too can be a transgressor will make you more empathetic to others. )


STEP 8 - Find more flow

(* "Flow" was a phrase coined by psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi in the 1960s. It means you are totally immersed in what you are doing and unaware of yourself. Happy people have the capacity to enjoy their lives even when their material conditions are lacking and even when many of their goals have not been reached.)


STEP 9 - Savour the day - Be here now.



STEP 10 - Commit to your goals 

(* People who strive for something personally significant, whether it's learning a new craft or changing careers, are far happier than those who don't have strong dreams or aspirations. Working towards a goal is more important to wellbeing than its attainment.)


STEP 11 - Take care of your soul

 (* A growing body of psychological research suggests that religious people are happier, healthier and recover better after traumas than nonreligious people. ...

* Find the sacred in ordinary life ...)

STEP 12 - Take care of your body

"The How of Happiness" Sonja Lyubomirsky - TalkRational



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Robert J. Ringer on Habits

 

“reality isn't the way you wish things to be, nor the way they appear to be, but the way they actually are.”
― Robert J. Ringer

 

 

“People say they love truth, but in reality they want to believe that which they love is true.”
― Robert J. Ringer

 

Million Dollar Habits

by Robert J. Ringer

 

 

Bestselling author Robert J. Ringer has shattered the mold of tradition-bound ideas and designed a winning new philosophy to be used every day. Inside this get-tough-with-yourself guide, you'll find the simple but vital habits that can change your outlook and lead to big results--personally, professionally, and financially. Before you know it, you'll be turning negatives into positives--and turning your life around--without thinking twice...

Preface:


"I'm in the business of trying to make sense out of life and communicating my conclusions to others in the simplest possible manner."



Ringer says this makes him a philosopher by some definitions: Someone who thinks in an effort to make sense out of life.




 Introduction:


Success is a matter of understanding and religiously practicing specific, simple habits that always lead to success.


A Solid Proposition because:

 1) it works

2) habits can be learned by anybody who is willing to put forth the effort.

 Practicing simple success habits day in and day out is the most certain way to win over the long term.







 Notes from:  Million Dollar Habits by R.J. Ringer
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Ralph Waldo Emerson Quotes | 7

Some books leave us free and some books make us free.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 


We are too civil to books. For a few golden sentences we will turn over and actually read a volume of four or five hundred pages.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



The reality is more excellent than the report.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Money often costs too much.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


We are always getting ready to live but never living.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 


Great are they who see that spiritual is stronger than any material force, that thoughts rule the world.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

 
Make it a goal to learn to communicate more deeply, effectively, compassionately. -- anon.















 




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Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.
Ralph Waldo Emerson






To laugh often and much;
To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.
This is to have succeeded.

-- Bessie Stanley

Often attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson, it is an adaptation of a poem published in 1905 by Bessie Stanley.
 No version of it has been found in Emerson's writings. 
For more information see “Success.”

 

Do not be too timid and squeamish about your reactions. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




The greatest homage we can pay to truth is to use it.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



I hung my verses in the wind,
Time and tide their faults may find.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 






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Ralph Waldo Emerson Quotes | 8

Life is a progress, and not a station.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Thought is the blossom; language the bud; action the fruit behind it.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare, And he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


The good lawyer is not the man who has an eye to every side and angle of contingency, and qualifies all his qualifications, but who throws himself on your part so heartily, that he can get you out of a scrape.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


There is a time in every man's education when he arrives at the conviction that envy is ignorance; that imitation is suicide; that he must take himself for better for worse as his portion . . . It is the harder because you will always find those who think they know what is your duty better than you know it. It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


Each man has his own vocation; his talent is his call. There is one direction in which all space is open to him.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


To fill the hour -- that is happiness.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


A friend is one before whom I may think aloud.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


Judge of your natural character by what you do in your dreams.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 

All history becomes subjective; in other words there is properly no history, only biography.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


To different minds, the same world is a hell, and a heaven.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


In skating over thin ice our safety is in our speed.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


Life is a succession of lessons, which must be lived to be understood.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


I hate quotations. Tell me what you know.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



A painter told me that nobody could draw a tree without in some sort becoming a tree; or draw a child by studying the outlines of its form merely . . . but by watching for a time his motions and plays, the painter enters into his nature and can then draw him at every attitude . . .
Ralph Waldo Emerson



The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

The only way to have a friend is to be one.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he knows that every day is Doomsday.
Ralph Waldo Emerson





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Good thoughts are no better than good dreams, unless they be executed.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

Every man is a quotation from all his ancestors.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

The world makes way for the man who knows where he is going.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

Make the most of yourself for that is all there is of you.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

 

Is it so bad to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

 

It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life, that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

Truth is beautiful, without doubt; but so are lies.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

Insist on yourself; never imitate. Your own gift you can present every moment with the cumulative force of a whole life's cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another you have only an extemporaneous, half possession.

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What a man does, that he has. What has he to do with hope or fear? In himself is his might. Let him regard no good as solid but that which is in his nature, and which must grow out of him as long as he exists. The goods of fortune may come and go like summer leaves; let him scatter them on every wind as the momentary signs of his infinite productiveness.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

Life is not so short but that there is always time enough for courtesy.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

 

We aim above the mark to hit the mark.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

 

The ancestor of every action is a thought.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

Everything in nature contains all the power of nature. Everything is made of one hidden stuff.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

From Washington, proverbially 'the city of distances,' through all its cities, states, and territories, it is a country of beginnings, of projects, of designs, and expectations.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

When a whole nation is roaring Patriotism at the top of its voice, I am fain to explore the cleanness of its hands and the purity of its heart.

Ralph Waldo Emerson 
 

Conservatism makes no poetry, breathes no prayer, has no invention; it is all memory. Reform has no gratitude, no prudence, no husbandry.

Ralph Waldo Emerson 

 

Conservatism is more candid to behold another's worth; reform more disposed to maintain and increase its own.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

Reform is affirmative, conservatism negative; conservatism goes for comfort, reform for truth.

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Emerson again

Our distrust is very expensive.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




Don't waste life in doubts and fears; spend yourself on the work before you, well assured that the right performance of this hour's duties will be the best preparation for the hours and ages that will follow it.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




No matter how you seem to fatten on a crime, there can never be good for the bee which is bad for the hive.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




The progress of religion is steadily to its identity with morals. Strength enters just as much as the moral element prevails.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




The moral sense reappears today with the same morning newness that has been from of old the fountain of beauty and strength. You say there is no religion now. 'Tis like saying in rainy weather, There is no sun, when at that moment we are witnessing one of its superlative effects.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




Public opinion, I am sorry to say, will bear a great deal of nonsense. There is scarcely any absurdity so gross, whether in religion, politics, science or manners, which it will not bear.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 



Books are the best of things, well used; abused, the worst. What is the right use? What is the end which all means go to effect? They are for nothing but to inspire. I had better never see a book than be warped by its attraction clean out of my own orbit, and made a satelite instead of a system.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




Religion is to do right. It is to love, it is to serve, it is to think, it is to be humble.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




Do not say things. What you are stands over you the while, and thunders, so that I cannot hear what you say to the contrary.
Ralph Waldo Emerson 



Stay at home in your mind. Don't recite other people's opinions. I hate quotations. Tell me what you know.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



All minds quote. Old and new make the warp and woof of every moment. There is no thread that is not a twist of these two strands.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 


Self-trust is the first secret of success.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 


People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 



Friendship should be surrounded with ceremonies and respects, and not crushed into corners. Friendship requires more time than poor busy men can usually command.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




What I must do is all that concerns me, not what the people think. This rule, equally arduous in actual and intellectual life, may serve for the whole distinction between greatness and meanness. It is the harder, because you will always find those who think they know what is your duty better than you know it. It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great person is one who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 



If the stars should appear but one night every thousand years how man would marvel and adore.
Ralph Waldo Emerson




Life is a train of moods like a string of beads; and as we pass through them they prove to be many colored lenses, which paint the world their own hue, and each shows us only what lies in its own focus.
Ralph Waldo Emerson





For what avail the plough or sail,
Or land or life, if freedom fail?
Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Do not waste yourself in rejection, nor bark against the bad, but chant the beauty of the good.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 

Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

 
The search after the great men is the dream of youth, and the most serious occupation of manhood.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


Can anybody remember when the times were not hard and money not scarce?
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Nor knowest thou what argument
Thy life to thy neighbor's creed has lent.
All are needed by each one;
Nothing is fair or good alone.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Put the argument into a concrete shape, into an image, some hard phrase, round and solid as a ball, which they can see and handle and carry home with them, and the cause is half won.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



What is a weed? A plant whose virtues have not yet been discovered.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


When I go into the garden with a spade, and dig a bed, I feel such an exhilaration and health that I discover that I have been defrauding myself all this time in letting others do for me what I should have done with my own hands.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


Presently we pass to some other object which rounds itself into a whole as did the first; for example, a well-laid garden; and nothing seems worth doing but the laying-out of gardens.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



There is no beautifier of complexion, or form, or behavior, like the wish to scatter joy and not pain around us. 'Tis good to give a stranger a meal, or a night's lodging. 'Tis better to be hospitable to his good meaning and thought, and give courage to a companion. We must be as courteous to a man as we are to a picture, which we are willing to give the advantage of a good light.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



These rabble at Washington ... see, against the unanimous expression of the people, how much a little well-directed effrontery can achieve, how much crime the people will bear, and they proceed from step to step...
Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Be as beneficent as the sun or the sea, but if your rights as a rational being are trenched on, die on the first inch of your territory.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 


Make your own Bible. Select and collect all the words and sentences that in your reading have been like the blast of triumph out of Shakespeare, Seneca, Moses, John and Paul.
Ralph Waldo Emerson 
 


By necessity, by proclivity, and by delight, we all quote. In fact, it is as difficult to appropriate the thoughts of others as it is to invent.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



The next thing to saying a good thing yourself, is to quote one.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Without a rich heart, wealth is an ugly beggar.
Ralph Waldo Emerson 

 




There is properly no history; only biography.
Ralph Waldo Emerson







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